i don’t know if i’d call grendel’s sexual interests kinks in the way people usually think of kinks  –  like, you know, bondage, or S&M, or anything that’s an Immediate turn-on and ends up being the total / primary focus of a sexual interaction  –  because that just isn’t how grendel engages with sex.  he doesn’t approach it with any goal in mind, and he prefers it to be spontaneous.  if a sexual encounter was too rigidly structured around kinky shit, grendel would lose interest pretty fast.

but there are things he  likes  and gets off on;  he’s a pretty moderate sexual masochist, and very much fancies the sight of a man in women’s underwear.  semi-public teasing and risky sex without protection are fun for him.  he also likes sexual roleplay in the most playful, non-serious sense of the word, likes to experiment with positions, and would have a pretty good time jerking off and watching porn with somebody else in the room.  prefers to keep everything internal, too, if you, uh  …  catch my drift.