if you toss homophobic shit at me  &  try to excuse your erasure of one of the few canonically gay characters that i’m actually willing  +  able to empathize  &  familiarize myself with, i really don’t give a shit what your situation is, i don’t care what happens to you, i don’t want to know your  “reasoning”  for thinking that shit’s okay, and i won’t even bother pretending to.  grendel is gay canonically.  he has been a canonical gay man in the literary canon for nearly 50 years.  he is purposefully represented as a visibly queer person in TWAU  for a reason,  and i don’t give a  FUCK  about whatever problems you have with that.

your FEELINGS on the matter mean SHIT to me.  shove them up your ass and move along;  i am  not  your guy.