really wish people would stop telling me my  “headcanon”  of grendel being gay is valid because for one it’s not a headcanon, it’s canon to his actual character, in his actual media, in various sources;  for Two calling it a headcanon makes it sound insignificant and like it’s totally cool to  “headcanon”  him as anything but gay

he is canonically gay and calling him anything but gay isn’t a headcanon, it’s homophobia.  next